Being a best friend isn't always easy, it all starts in being a real friend. It takes a lot of time and effort to nurture a
lasting friendship and for me it is worth every ounce of effort to be one. Time will pass, people come, people go and some people will stay by your side, and those people that will stay will be your only priceless possession and will be called your best friend. But for you to have one you should start from your self first. I can only share some ways to be the best friend ever. Some may apply and some may not. To be a Be The Best Friend Ever, you have to establish a trusting friendship, be there for
your friend during hard times, and deepen a friendship to make it last. Here are the 20 Ways You Can Be The Best Friend Ever
1. A real friend keeps his/her promises - Yes, I know promises are made to be broken… but don’t make it a habit, at least explain or
2. A real friend is dependable - You should be relyable just like keeping promises if you say you will you should marked your word and be a person your friend can depend on.
3. A real friend knows how to apologize when you've made a mistake - Everybody makes mistakes and nobody is perfect, what makes a perfect friend is someone who knows how to admit his wrong, say "sorry" and mean it.
4 A real friend is honest - You have to be honest about your feelings, about your friends' actions, and about how you feel about your friendship. You should know when to say "no" or tell your friend that he/she is overboard but in a good way.
5 A real friend don't use people - Friends with benefits is not a true friend, you should be a friend to him/her even if he/she has nothing. I guess in times like this a true friend arise.
6 A real friend is loyal - You should know when to keep a secret, your friend is confident that his/her secret is safe with you because he/she has confidence in you. If you want to say something to your friend you should say it in his/her face.
7 A real friend is respectful - respect his or her choices and be open to hearing more about them then your friend should feel comfortable voicing opinions that you may not agree with, or discussing a new perspective with you.
8 A real friend is selfless - Accommodate your friend's wishes whenever you can, provided this is done in a balanced way. Reciprocate his or her acts of kindness with caring deeds of your own, and your friendship will be strengthened.
9 A real friend is a good listener - Sometimes he or she just need someone to bent his or her frustration and you don't need to say something. Sometimes it is better to listen than to comment because sometimes he or she does not need your advise he or she just need someone to let it out.
10 A real friend help you deal with their struggles - Be supportive, you'll have to be able to watch out for your friends when they're having a tough time.
2. A real friend is dependable - You should be relyable just like keeping promises if you say you will you should marked your word and be a person your friend can depend on.
3. A real friend knows how to apologize when you've made a mistake - Everybody makes mistakes and nobody is perfect, what makes a perfect friend is someone who knows how to admit his wrong, say "sorry" and mean it.
4 A real friend is honest - You have to be honest about your feelings, about your friends' actions, and about how you feel about your friendship. You should know when to say "no" or tell your friend that he/she is overboard but in a good way.
5 A real friend don't use people - Friends with benefits is not a true friend, you should be a friend to him/her even if he/she has nothing. I guess in times like this a true friend arise.
6 A real friend is loyal - You should know when to keep a secret, your friend is confident that his/her secret is safe with you because he/she has confidence in you. If you want to say something to your friend you should say it in his/her face.
7 A real friend is respectful - respect his or her choices and be open to hearing more about them then your friend should feel comfortable voicing opinions that you may not agree with, or discussing a new perspective with you.
8 A real friend is selfless - Accommodate your friend's wishes whenever you can, provided this is done in a balanced way. Reciprocate his or her acts of kindness with caring deeds of your own, and your friendship will be strengthened.
9 A real friend is a good listener - Sometimes he or she just need someone to bent his or her frustration and you don't need to say something. Sometimes it is better to listen than to comment because sometimes he or she does not need your advise he or she just need someone to let it out.
10 A real friend help you deal with their struggles - Be supportive, you'll have to be able to watch out for your friends when they're having a tough time.
11 A real friend will be there in a time of crisis - If your friend is going through a crisis, don't say, "Everything is going to be all right" if it's not going to be. It's hard not to say that sometimes, but false reassurance can often be worse than none. Instead, let your friend know you are there for him or her. Stay honest, but upbeat and positive.
12 A real friend gives thoughtful advice - Make sure that before you open your mouth and give advise you should always put your self on your friends shoes. You should be able to weigh your friend's situation from his or her perspective and to provide your opinion without insisting that your friend should do whatever you say. Don't judge your friend; simply advise him or her when he or she reaches out.
13 A real friend gives some space when he/she needs it - Remember that there are other things a person needs to do and you have your own life as well. There's no need to become clingy or needy. If you're clingy and check in with your friend every two seconds if he or she isn't around, you'll start to look like a possessive significant other, and that will not be appreciated.
14 A best friend knows how to forgive - As what I said earlier, everybody commits mistakes and if a friend knows how to admit that he or she is wrong then you should also knows how to forgive and move on. After all nobody is perfect.
15 A real friend knows how to accept who he or she is - Everybody is born unique, everybody has his/her own dark side. Nobody is perfect, so for you you be a good friend you should know how to accept your friends flaws and accept that he or she has some good and bad side. If you learn how to accept it and that is why you are there to compensate it.
16 A real friend will go beyond the call of duty - You should know when you are really needed and knows to stay on his/her side specially when needed. Recognize the moments when you need to go above and beyond to help your friend and know that this will make your friendship grow, and that your friend will do the same for you in return.
17 A real friend let your friendship evolve - Change is the only constant in this world. Everybody changes be ready for that and you should know how to adjust. This doesn't mean that your friendship isn't as strong; it just means that your lives are evolving, and your friendship is taking on a different shape over the years.
18 A real friend will always be there - We might change through the years, have different work, have a family and have some other friends. But a true friend will always be there and will respond if needed through the good times and the bad times.
19 A real friend will always be your ally - No matter what happen he or she will be at your side even if the whole world is against you a friend will always there to support you and understand you and guide you in times of trouble.
20 A real friend calls - Years may have passed and friends tend to grow apart, but one thing is for sure a real friend always stay in touch. Even with a simple text, a phone call or a message in facebook or tweeter or even a video call in skype.
16 A real friend will go beyond the call of duty - You should know when you are really needed and knows to stay on his/her side specially when needed. Recognize the moments when you need to go above and beyond to help your friend and know that this will make your friendship grow, and that your friend will do the same for you in return.
17 A real friend let your friendship evolve - Change is the only constant in this world. Everybody changes be ready for that and you should know how to adjust. This doesn't mean that your friendship isn't as strong; it just means that your lives are evolving, and your friendship is taking on a different shape over the years.
18 A real friend will always be there - We might change through the years, have different work, have a family and have some other friends. But a true friend will always be there and will respond if needed through the good times and the bad times.
19 A real friend will always be your ally - No matter what happen he or she will be at your side even if the whole world is against you a friend will always there to support you and understand you and guide you in times of trouble.
20 A real friend calls - Years may have passed and friends tend to grow apart, but one thing is for sure a real friend always stay in touch. Even with a simple text, a phone call or a message in facebook or tweeter or even a video call in skype.
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